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A Super Bowl Story About Kurtis & Brenda

Perhaps you might have already heard this one, but it fits in with the Super Bowl, now that the Arizona Cardinals have finally made it there.

KURTIS THE STOCK BOY AND BRENDA THE CHECKOUT GIRL

In a supermarket, Kurtis the stock boy, was busily working when a new voice came over the loud speaker asking for a carry out at register 4.  Kurtis was almost finished, and wanted to get some fresh air, and decided to answer the call. As he 
approached the check-out stand a distant smile caught his eye, the new check-out girl was beautiful. She was an older woman (maybe 26, and he was only 22) and he fell in love.

Later that day, after his shift was over, he waited by the punch clock to find  out her name. She came into the break room, smiled  softly at him, took her card  and punched out, then left.  He looked at her card, BRENDA.  He walked out only to  see her start walking up the road.  Next day, he waited outside as she left the supermarket,  and offered her a ride home. He looked harmless enough, and she accepted. When he  dropped her off, he asked if maybe he could see her again, outside of work. She simply said it wasn't possible.
He pressed and she explained she had two children and she couldn't afford a baby-sitter, so he offered to pay for the baby-sitter.  Reluctantly she  accepted  his offer for a date for the following Saturday. That Saturday night he  arrived  at her door only to have her tell him that she was unable to go with him. The  baby-sitter had called and canceled. To which Kurtis simply said, "Well,  let's take the kids with us."

She tried to explain that taking the children was not an option, but again  not  taking no for an answer, he pressed.  Finally Brenda, brought him inside to  meet  her children.  She had an older daughter who was just as cute as a bug,  Kurtis  thought, then Brenda brought out her son, in a wheelchair. He was born a  paraplegic with Down Syndrome.

Kurtis asked Brenda, "I still don't understand why the kids can't  come with us?"  Brenda was amazed. Most men would run away from a woman  with two kids, especially if one had disabilities - just like her first  husband  and father of her children had done. Kurtis was not ordinary - - - he had a  different mindset.

That evening Kurtis and Brenda loaded up the kids, went to dinner and the  movies. When her son needed anything Kurtis would take care of him. When he  needed to use the restroom, he picked him up out of his wheelchair, took him  and  brought him back.  The kids loved Kurtis.  At the end of the evening, Brenda  knew this was the man she was going to marry and spend the rest of her life  with.

A year later, they were married and Kurtis adopted both of her children.  Since then they have added two more kids.

So what happened to Kurtis the stock boy and Brenda the check-out girl?
Well,  Mr. & Mrs. Kurt Warner now live in Arizona , where he is currently employed as the quarterback of the National Football League Arizona Cardinals and has his  Cardinals in the Super Bowl.  Is this a
surprise ending or could you have guessed that he was not an ordinary person.

It should be noted that he also quarterbacked the Rams in Super Bowl XXXVI.

He has also been the NLF's Most Valuable Player twice and the Super Bowl's Most Valuable Player.

AND THE REST OF THE STORY:

A minister mentioned that when Kurt, his wife and 7
children go out to eat he has one of his children pick out a family eating at the restaurant. Kurt then  tells the wait staff he is picking up the tab for that family's dinner anonymously. He remembers the  days he was working nights in the grocery store and feeding his family on food stamps.

Makes it hard not to root for the Cardinals IN THE SUPER BOWL now that you know this...doesn't it?

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Can you see Kurt restocking the shelves by launching items from isle to isle. Taking hams and throwing a laser 20 yards into the meat section. “Butcher, run a post!”

You have to hate losing more than you love winning.

by Mr MaLoR on Jan 24, 2009 10:36 AM EST reply actions  

the butcher wouldn’t be working when kurt was stocking. butchers work 7AM-3:30Pm and stock guys should be out of the aisles by then (10PM-6:30AM). also, the days of the butcher are almost over with the creation of the cryopac meats (pre-cut). unless, he worked at a plant, gourmet or mom amd pop operation. but, Kurt might have been in an actual department like frozen foods or dairy- then he would be working when the butcher was working and might have thrown your ham. i really coudn’t picture kurt throwing the ham and risk losing his $5/hr. and benefits if he’s working full time hours. i bet they had him stocking bulky paper products because he’s pretty big and might have had trouble stocking baby food jars and canned goods.

by raven on Jan 26, 2009 11:32 AM EST up reply actions  

lol…it put me through school and paid off my Gremlin.

by raven on Jan 27, 2009 2:39 PM EST up reply actions  

Amazing story

"Ask Philly was it hard tryin' a stop TO, he da main reason that the fans would come fo'."

by aussie_cowboy on Jan 25, 2009 12:41 AM EST reply actions  

great story, but is it true..

by purpleonblack86 on Jan 25, 2009 2:05 PM EST reply actions  

Is that a chain letter?

I found this…..
http://web2.rootzoo.com/threads/view/NFL-Football/Arizona-Cardinals/Heart-Warming-Story-Kurt-and-Brenda-Warner_217317

The premise of the above-quoted story — that NFL quaterback Kurt Warner (now with the Arizona Cardinals) married the mother of two children, one of whom which had severe medical problems — is true. On the other Kurt Warnerhand, most of the key details given in the now widely e-mailed story are wrong. (Which in itself is a crying shame because the real story about Kurt’s and Brenda’s path through life is far more inspiring than this factually incorrect one.)

Let’s address the inaccuracies first:

Kurt and Brenda did not meet while both were working in a grocery store, so you can throw out all that bit about his mooning over her timecard. They met in 1992 at a country bar while he was Northern Iowa’s starting quarterback. (After being cut by the Green Bay Packers in 1994, Kurt did find employment in a grocery store, though: He stocked shelves at a Hy-Vee in Cedar Falls for $5.50 an hour.) The next morning Kurt brought Brenda roses and wanted to meet her youngsters. She’d told Kurt about her children the night before, so there was no dramatic surprise when she introduced her disabled son.

The Warners’ was a lengthy courtship. They married in 1997 after meeting in 1992 (not “a year later,” as the e-mail has it).

Brenda (who is four=2 0years older than Kurt) had two children by a previous marriage; however, the e-mail version has their birth order reversed. In real life, Zachary is three years older than his sister, Jesse Jo. (More on this seemingly picayune point later because it’s pivotal to the real story of Brenda Warner’s life before Kurt.)

Zachary Warner (born in 1989) does indeed have serious physical infirmities, but how he came by them is far more of a story than the Internet fiction lets on. He was a perfectly healthy infant, not a Down Syndrome child. When he was four months old, his father dropped him, and in the blink of an eye, this previously healthy baby was suddenly clinging to life, his grip slipping fast. He suffered severe brain damage, and both of his retinas were ruptured. At the time, few thought Zachary would live, and fewer still held out any hope he would ever see, sit up, read, walk, or

talk.

Zachary’s recovery has been long and arduous, but he now walks and talks. Though still legally blind, he can make out colors and shapes. No longer strictly a special-needs student, he is integrated for half-days in a regular high school classroom.

Kurt adopted Zachary and Jesse after his wedding to Brenda in 1997. The Warners have since added five more children to their brood: Kade in 1998, Jada in 2001, Elijah in 2003, and twins Sienna and Sierra in 2005.

As for what sort of lad Zachary is and what kind of relationship he enjoys with his adoptive father, this anecdote should say it all: After the Rams victory in the NFC Championship game in 2000, 10-year-old Zachary presented Kurt with a homemade card done in Rams blue and gold. Inside, in childlike scrawl, it read: “You’re as good a dad as you are a quarterback!”

Zachary’s birth dad could hardly be described in similar fashion. An inability to come to terms with the injuries he’d visited upon his son led to the breakup of his marriage to Brenda. He left her when she was eight months pregnant with Jesse.

Over and above the numerous inaccuracies, the worst offence this particular e-mailed glurge is guilty of is omission. Not content with recasting the details of the Warners’ lives (and the reality had the fiction beat, remember), it leaves by the wayside horrendously large chunks of a truly thrilling story of the sort one usuall y pays $9.00 to see at the movies:

* All the heartbreak Kurt endured trying to get into the NFL, and the many setbacks he had to weather along the way. So many of our gridiron heroes go in as highly touted draft picks it’s sometimes hard to realize some take a tortuous path to the pigskin paradise of the NFL. Kurt presented as a free agent to the Green Bay Packers in 1994, was signed, then cut by them that same year. In 1997 he had a tryout scheduled with the Chicago Bears which fell through when an injury sustained during his honeymoon rendered him hors de combat. (A venomous spider had bitten him on his throwing elbow.) He had to muck about in the Arena and European leagues before finally being taken on by the Rams in 1997 as their third-string quarterback. In 1999 he stepped in during the preseason in place of injured Trent Green and began almost immediately to rewrite Rams’ history.
* Brenda’s battle to make a life for herself and her two children after her first husband deserted her. This former Marine had to return to her parents’ home when she was eight months =2 0 pregnant with her second child and with a brain-damaged child already in tow. She completed her nursing training during this period, getting by with the help of food stamps and student loans.
* The death of Brenda’s parents in Mountain View, Arkansas, in a tornado in 1996. They’d retired there just a year earlier.
* Kurt’s embracing of Christianity in 1996. (Although he was raised a Catholic, he dates his spiritual awakening to those dark days in the wake of the deaths of Brenda’s parents.)
* Kurt’s throwing for a record 414 yards in his 23-16 Super Bowl XXXIV victory over the Tennessee Titans and being named that contest’s Most Valuable Player. This new mark topped the previous record of 357 yards set by San Francisco’s Joe Montana in Super Bowl XXIII and capped an astounding 4,353-yard, 41-touchdown regular season that won him league MVP honors.

As you can see, falling in love with and then marrying a gal who had two children, one of them a special needs child, was just part of this most remarkable story.

In Super Bowl XXXVI, Kurt Warner led the St. Louis Rams in their quest for another victory; although they came up just short, Warner was already the stuff of legends. Deservedly.

by DT711 on Jan 26, 2009 8:21 AM EST reply actions  

Wow, I guess this story has more twists

than the one I read and osted. Either way, it gives a big clue as to what a god-fearing man Kurt is and you’ve got to respect his path in life.

Rexx

by Rexx on Jan 26, 2009 10:10 AM EST up reply actions  

this story is more accurate…
I bet Zachary will one day put up better numbers than Boller.

by raven on Jan 26, 2009 11:12 AM EST reply actions  

What the HECK????

As a parent of a child with down syndrome … I find it TOTALLY offensive that “down syndrome” was added to this story to make it more dramatic!!! As if the real story wasn’t dramatic enough. Children are born with or develop special needs in different ways. But, one is not necessarily more difficult to deal with than another. There is a large spectrum of what is normal for any child … this works the same for children with special needs!!! People need to realize that EACH child is their own person and can be as diffrent as “typical” children (people) can be. Lets all try to remember that our words can and do change lives … lets not tell UNTRUTHS to make a story “sell” better!!! Ugh! Disgusting actually!!!

by mocute2000 on Jan 26, 2009 1:36 PM EST reply actions  

Yea I agree

But it was a chain letter so of course they will embellish the truth

by DT711 on Jan 27, 2009 8:41 AM EST up reply actions  

And I'm sure

the Down Syndrome was more of a lack of knowledge (ignorance by my opinion) than purposeful deception just to embellish the story.

Rexx

by Rexx on Jan 27, 2009 8:45 AM EST up reply actions  

if its on the web it’s 1/3 true. like my posts.

by raven on Jan 27, 2009 2:36 PM EST reply actions  

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